When
you are visiting some cemeteries, especially National Cemeteries, you may
notice that some headstones marking some of the graves have coins on them, left
by previous visitors to the grave. Well, here is a purported story, and I think
it's a good one!
These coins have distinct meanings when left on the
headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military,
and these meanings vary depending on the denomination of coin.
A coin left on a headstone or at the grave site is
meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has
visited the grave to pay respect.
Leaving a penny at the grave means
simply that you visited.
A nickel indicates that you and the deceased
trained at boot camp together.
A dime means you served with him in some
capacity.
A quarter left at the grave tells the
family that you were with the solider when he was killed.
According to tradition, the money left at graves in
national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and
the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery, or for paying burial costs
for indigent veterans.
In the US, this practice became common during the
Vietnam War, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a
coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the
grave. It was thought this better than
contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable
argument over politics relating to the war.
Some Vietnam Veterans would leave coins as a
"down payment" to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of
cards when they would finally be reunited.
The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of
military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.
I did not know of this, but you can bet
your dog tags that I will have a pocket full of coins the next time I visit my
friends.
Thanks, guys! And RIP!